Holy smokes - was my last post on here really in May? That is crazy-town!

Do I have a lot to post? Yes.

How's the photography world? SO awesome. The leaves are changing and my calendar is overflowing with my amazing families! More to come 💜💛💚💙 

Have I been enjoying life? Yes. For SURE!

Are my kids getting big? Yes - and they just keep getting more awesome and fun. 8th grade & 5th grade. Both on the top of their schools this year. Next year - both on the bottom (and one as a Freshman in high school - whoa).

Is Todd good? Totally - love him. Times a million. We pulled in the garage a few weeks ago. Looked over and caught a glimpse of someone in his car IN the garage. Oh wait - it's a clown. Then he turns his head and looks at us. The kids scream. It's Todd - waiting - in his car - to scare us - with his clown mask on. So yeah - he's up to his usual tricks! 😂

How's the family? Awesome. My sister got married, kids are in a groove, cousins abound, traditions and trips and family dinners! LOVE!

The dogs? Hilarious. Annie - 1. Wyatt 3.5. They are hysterical and besties. Annie is stealing... a lot. But weird things like my pants...and insoles....and workout shirts?!!! Wyatt has mostly stopped stealing. Finally 😃

Fav show at the moment? Hello - This Is Us is back in full swing. Well, and Todd and I started watching Handmaid's Tale. WHOA! 

It's been a little hairy scary in our world these past months. So, I'm focused on spreading love and being kind and talking to my kids about real stuff and small ways to make a big difference in someone's day!  So tonight, I hope you all know that you make my life better. Truly!

Keep enjoying the smells and sounds and traditions of fall. FAVORITE SEASON EVER!




Best. Homerwork Support. EVER!!!

13 and 10

Audrey and Nate.

13 and 10. 


They are 2 years & 9 months apart to the day. I always joke Nate was 7 days late on purpose so he and Audrey shared the same birth-day of the month!

This year - double digits and teenager 😊  I swear they just looked like this....

And now they are all big....just like that. And I couldn't love them more than I do!


You are 13. And you are an old soul and one of the most insightful people I know.

You are smart, loving, sporty, kind, confident, super organized, witty, 10000% family oriented (nothing makes you happier than family dinner), loyal (so loyal), a lover of gummy bears, licorice, and mint lifesavers :), a go-getter, a total self-manager in every way there is, completely responsible, perceptive, observant, crafty, an excellent cook, fettucine alfredo is your love language, you love photography, you're so artistic, a fabulous soccer player and serious track sprinter, you love to travel, you dream of places you'll go someday (South Pacific, New Zealand and back to Thailand), you get things done - you figure it out - no matter what it is. You always impress me. You really are just the best person! You are embarking on a new phase of your growing up. For the next 5 years I get the privilege of watching you grow into a woman. There will be happy times and hard times and all the times I will love you and always be a safe place for you to land - no matter what! I love you times a jillion and I think you are awesome! Happy Birthday.


Oh my goodness, you are 10!!! Double digits! That's crazy!

Nate - you are hilarious and you are a force! You are smart, fast (infection & tag are your favorite), a reader (I have to tell you all the time at night, "Nate - you have to put your book down and get some sleep"), you love candy (and I mean LOVE), you eat constantly, you are the kindest friend, you love soccer and basketball and lacrosse - basically all sports, you love 4th grade and your 4th grade teacher, you love climbing trees, you love milk (like, I might need to buy a cow to keep up), you love learning about animals and nature and all creatures (I always say you are equal parts sports lover and nature lover), you love classic rock music, you are fun, energetic, enthusiastic, you are always enjoying your life - no matter what you are doing, you are brave, friendly (you will literally talk to anyone), curious, really good at taking care of yourself, you love to travel and learn about new people and cultures and have fun & new adventures, you dream of where you'll go someday (current list - Bali, Africa, German concentration camps), your dogs - you love them so much, your Ripstick - you also love this so much, you love your family and thrive when we are all together hanging out. You just impress me with how positive you are and how you literally just find joy in the little moments of every day! Don't ever lose that. You are awesome buddy! I love you to the moon!  Happy Birthday!

To the two of you - always love each other. Always be each others biggest fans and always look out for each other. Enjoy each other because you are perfectly made to be brother and sister.

I am your biggest fan and I always will be!

Love you!


Fall Awesome.....

This past fall was full of amazing families and so much love! So many sessions are top secret until after the annual Christmas card is released!! So, I thought I'd share a taste of their awesomeness this morning!

To my families - seriously - I can't tell you enough just how much I love spending time and capturing you (many each year)! It's my favorite!

Happy Sunday!



Costa Rica - Parte Dos!!

Good morning!!!! I totally thought it would take me a lot longer to get the rest of our Costa Rica trip documented. But the snow came and school was cancelled! 💙

Audrey is at her buddy's and Nate is outside with the neighborhood crew and the dogs. 
So here we go! 

Before I jump in with a barrage of photos and silly stories, I am always reminded of a few things when we travel together as a family! 

 The world is awesome. There are cool cultures to learn about, differences in religion that are so interesting, amazing food to try, the nicest people to meet, other traditions to experience, so much compassion, and so much joy. Our differences are what make things so interesting. 
This is true whether we are traveling in our own awesome country or somewhere else! 

And feeling humbled. Oh my gosh you guys - humbled. It's probably the word that comes to my mind the most when we are anywhere outside our country. I love my life at home and no matter where we live, it's easy to get lost in the day to day and forget just how lucky we are! I know our country is going through some growing pains at the moment, but seriously - we are so lucky here. SO lucky! 

And language - dang - do I ever feel like a dork sometimes when we travel to a non-english speaking country. Yes, I can speak some Spanish, enough to get by.....but man I'm always SO impressed at all the countries in the world that fluently speak 2-3 languages or more (one is usually English)! 
Costa Rica was no different. 
So awesome!

And kids. They just get it. They just see all others as a potential friend....no matter where they are. 
It doesn't matter if you don't speak the same language. They just share some candy, grab a juice, play some soccer, run around and figure it out!  It's how they roll. 
I'm certain we have kids to be reminded of this on a daily basis.  
I never ever want my kids to be afraid of people anywhere. 
Yes, there are bad guys in some places. But let's be real. Most people are good. 
I choose to work from that place! 

Sorry for the ramble. Let me pick up from yesterday! 

The rest of our Itinerary! 

Days 7-10: Manuel Antonio/Quepos/Parrita. We rented a car here and learned to drive in Costa Rica! 
We stayed about 30 minutes outside Manuel Antonio. Clandestino Beach Resort. YOU GUYS! HEAVEN!!!!! Totally off the beaten path and you drive on this crazy dirt rode forever and feel completely lost. Then out of nowhere, there it is! Voted Gendreau favorite beach! And the turtle shaped pool! I'm sure Audrey was waiting months for this place! And we were not disappointed. This place was quite small, restaurant on site, deserted beach, body surfing, boogie boarding, delicious mai-tai's! And the kids' favorite Costa Rica gem - Tropical Juices. It's funny the things kids notice and love about trips.....what's the fav local candy and what's the best local drink!!! WOOP!!! Fun snorkeling happened here, the national park, monkeys galore, crazy lizards, lots of swimming, the most gorgeous sunsets, Nate and I parasailed, and an unguided 3 mile hike in the rainforest with suspension bridges (yikes - ask Todd about that one - he's my non lover of heights). Also when you are walking unguided and you see a sign in Spanish that says "watch for poisonous snakes", one feels slightly FREAKED! Alas, we saw no poisonous snakes. We did find a fantastic few waterfalls and swimming holes! Ever day when we were headed somewhere we cruised through this small village. People on their porches, grandma and grandpas riding their bikes around, dogs running everywhere....and these moms....riding on these rocky, dirt, dusty roads....no fancy bike...but a kid in front of her, one behind her and sometimes one sitting on the handle bars...with her bags of groceries. And we'd all wave at each other. Seriously. Women are amazing! And I will never say anything about driving to the store again!
Days 8-10: This day was a long one. We took it easy and drove from the coast into the central mountainous region of Costa Rica. Think a series of volcanos from the north to the south. Along this drive we experienced a variety of road conditions, and seriously skinny lanes and curvy roads....high high high up, then down down down....over and over. This was where we drove up to a bridge where everyone was parked and hanging out on. Why?? CROCODILE CITY! Please Nate - do not lean that far over! And to the Costa Rican guy down near the river cutting up wood with his chainsaw - you are a brave soul! About four hours later we arrived in La Fortuna. Arenal is a beautiful area. Smoking volcano covered in rainforest. Natural hot spring rivers all around, cool animals, loads to do! They say you are lucky if you get to see the volcano, as the clouds often hang low covering it completely. We were lucky to have 2 full days of sun and full view. Then the intermittent monsoon rains returned! Of course rain in 85 degrees is no big deal! We stay in this amazing AirBnb - Parrot Hill Ranch, in El Castillo. This family were the most amazing hosts. We were way up high overlooking Lake Arenal and the volcano! What a view! It took Nate 5 minutes to end up outside playing soccer with the boys and then 30 minutes longer to get invited down to their house to play some xbox. Janet (the amazing mom) invited us down to share the traditional Christmas Eve dinner with their family. Could it get any better? My little bit of Spanish and her little bit of English was enough for us to get by. And really-kindness and smiling  is universal. Nate would rise at 6am and sneak out to help the guys with the farm chores. He loved it. So did we. He did come back one day and tell me he learned to use a machete! It was probably really great I wasn't down there. 😓  On Christmas we ziplined...and we totally did up the hot springs...and it was fabulous. Um, ziplining through the rainforest - WOWZA! All 4 of us had a blast! And Todd faced every fear of heights he had. Way to go Todd! One rainy and wet day we decided to do the Reptile Ecological Reserve. Ick. But Nate finally saw the Fer-de-lance and Bushmaster in real life. Along with loads of other snakes, poison dart frogs, lizards, glass frogs (his favorite) various spiders and arachnids. Our guide was like a grown version of Nate. "Oh look, here's a lizard I just caught...Nate, let's go feed it to the tarantula".  He loved it! Audrey's bravery completely WOWED me! And her knowledge. I guess living in the house with a nature lover seeps into everyones brains. She held the spaghetti snake for a while, until it started to coil around her hand and really freaked her out 😀 But she's way braver than me. Give me any insect or creature, but DON'T give me a snake! I don't care what you say to me, I will not hold it! 
Days 11-13: About 2 hours north of the Arenal area is the Tenorio Volcano. In the foothills lies La Carolina Lodge.  It is literally in the middle of nowhere.  A working farm on 100+ acres. Built along a river, all food off the property, wood fired hot tub, cabins, family style eating, birds galore, wildlife galore, the MOST delicious food cooked by the local area AWESOME women. Literally the best food of our entire trip. These ladies cooked over a wood fired stove all day long. The kids would milk the cow in the morning and that pitcher of milk was on our table an hour later. DECLICIOUS! The Gendreaus voted them best hot chocolate of our lives! Chocolate caliente con leche. Seriously - the best. Rio Celeste is here as well, however because of the rains, the usual crazy mineral driven electric blue color was more mud color, so we didn't do the hike. But that's ok....there is plenty to do here. It was also here that we realized just how small our world is. We went down to the hot tub next to the river and another family was there. They spoke English and we started chatting. Turns out - they live 30 minutes from us. AND, their mom (also with them), lives in our town. AND they grew up on the road we live! AND their sister is our friend. WHAT?!?! Nate and their son became instant play buddies! Fishing, hiking, running around. It was a blast!  Side note- the road to get here. You must have a 4x4. And even though you think you are lost, you aren't. And yes - they will be the craziest roads you've probably ever driven. And if your kids were fighting like ours were that first day, you might stop and tell them to get out and run behind the car! HA! Ok - they didn't - but they almost had to! La Carolina Lodge could be the most authentic Costa Rican experience of your trip! 
Days 14-15:  Ok - time to head out of the mountains and back to the beach and sun! Tamarindo! We loved it and the kids totally loved it. The Guanacaste coast is little surf town after little surf town. SO fun. We did a lot of swimming in the ocean, eating good food and exploring. 
Day 16: Playa Hermosa! We rented a little condo here for our last night. Beautiful, small, great little beach and fun restaurants. I will say that the drive from Tamarindo up to Playa Hermosa was beautiful and also an adventure. GPS sometimes takes you the quickest and most random routes. And in Costa Rica - most roads are perfectly fine but with the occasional pot hole. Then all of a sudden you take a turn and you are on a rudded, rocky, dirt road. Long story short - river crossings. They happen frequently here. Be ready and don't be afraid. And whenever you can - follow a local through - cuz they know just where to go! We tried the dirt road with the GIANT hole twice. The second time, Todd high centered and the wheels started to spin. This is when Audrey decided she was going to bail and jump out of the car. Everyone got a little crazy for a second, then the local behind us backed it up and took the river. We followed and all was well. And then we laughed so hard and decided that story goes down in history for our family. And of course we talked about how to take a breath and make an assessment of real danger. DO NOT JUMP OUT OF THE CAR! 
Day 17: Sigh, it's time to go. We flew home easily from the Liberia airport. No problema!

This was our first trip being gone at Christmas. As weird as it was, it also wasn't so weird. Except, of course, missing our family (which we totally missed you)! It was the most non-commercialized Christmas I'd ever experienced. About 70% of the country is Catholic. So Christmas is big. It's just not commercial. It's about the story, and the spirit, and the meal together, and family! It was refreshing. We also loved checking out all the Christmas trees on everyones front porch and stockings on the door. It's what you do when you don't have a chimney/fireplace. Santa has to get in somewhere :) 

Ok - picture time! 

Parasailing with Nate in Manuel Antonio

El Castillo

 This is a glass frog. 
Nate's favorite. 
And when you are 10 and you find it at night out on a leaf - you get really excited!

Audrey - you are waaaaay braver then me!!!!!!!!!! 

Just chillin' in town! 

The road to La Carolina
No joke here! 
And it really doesn't do it justice!

La Carolina Lodge
So amazing 

New Costa Rica friends. 
But wait, they also live 30 minutes away from us at home too !
So crazy! 


And there we are.

Hoping my kids will love reading this in 20 years!

To my local mama's - enjoy your snow day!